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February 02, 2007

The Hidden Element

Sometimes... when you wonder why did this happend? Why did my bf/gf left me, why am i fat, why am i having all these sickness, why am i still doing this job when i suppose to be promoted, why does my result sucks.


Very Simple.

Because you didn't know.


If you understand, open urself & accept the power of cause & effect, you can control your future.

(1) I don't know what will happend.
Find out, keep researching... decide a life that you want in the future. Look few steps ahead, write it down, go through your goals every single day. u might not know this but once written, its burned in ur brain... ur subconcious mind will slowly lead you to what you want.

I was fat, i had "Breast", jello tummy & double chin. My teacher made me run the school without my shirt on coz i forget singlets in PE. i ran *bouncing bouncing. Went home, told myself, i wanna have a fit body.
Keep joining activities, keep pushing my physical limit, sacrifice other goodies, know what i'll accomplish by giving this much.

In this case i need to feel the pinch to learn somthing new, but with that one pinch, i see everything a step further. Keep yourself motivated by ur experience of losing. One method is to keep an idol in mind, Imagine being him in the next X year(s).

(2) I don't know what to do.
We all don't know what to do coz there's so many great things to do in this world! which one's great? fun? which one will i like? i like this, but i like that one too... Put your head down, throw a dart at any 1 direction & sprint, run so fast u find yourself ahead of so many. The faster you run, the further you'll go.

I love everything... B.ball, good results, being fit, getting every balls in a snooker table, win any computer games, dancing, swimming, earn money. There's only 24hrs in a day.... whatever it is, i wanna be d best in it.
Action: Do everything giving you highest energy, exhaust urself, practice for Insane hours, tell yourself u can be anything u want (this is not lying to yourself, but self-mind programming) human psychology works that way. Many laugh & say... go back to reality... those are the ppl who spend time complaining, get fat, get lazy & accomplish nothing. You decide :)
Adversity

(3) But i'll lose my "face"/ reputation.
Yeah, you lose the most expensive thing to maintain: YOUR F**Kin EGO.

You wanna be the best, you need to give up, give up things that are costing u much & give u little returns. Be a good investor. investing in value, not dollars & cents. You decide whats valuable to you, you work ur ass on it.
e.g of valueble things to ppl: Physical attractiveness, Core Intelligence,  street smart knowledge, Fitness, friendship, money.... your choice. Others might laugh @ u, humilate u, scold u... but who gives a F**K who u become? NO ONE. some ppl care for you, but not ALL THE TIME. they have their own lifes to run, to care about. So whatever u do, make a goal, run & run hard. be so good at what u do... others gotta shut up / criticize u / pay to learn from you / use ur knowledge coz they can't win u / need to spend more time to develop ur skill.

(4) Should i win all the time?
Thats what i've missed throughout my winnings, a very important element that i've paid an expensive price to win. I know the formula to winning, i win all the time. but in the end, for me its not that important after all. When u win, someone or MANY are gonna lose. & Not many ppl in this world can take a beating. (those who can are positive ppl who have a strong winning mindset) so for the majority... ppl ain't happy with losing. I guess u can take it from here...

Have Fun ;)

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hey i like tis piece of thought that u share here..
now i know what to do.. thx yea! ;)

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